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Missing my Son or Da...
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I love my Dad.
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stages
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her name is bre'anna necole tinsley and I also have a set of twiins on the way due june 30!!!!!!!
everybody ehis is my new baby girl
im in the hospital for respatory failure and its sucks its the same one my kids came to that horrible nigjht everyone here knows me and they all want to tell me how they know what ive been through aint that a freakin laugh i respectfully smile and...
hey everyone im been off the chain for awhile but have truely missed this group alot god bless everyone and if anyone would like to talk or update me i would like that my daughters bd and one of my sons is comeing dec6 rage,pain,grief,tears you kn...
rage= fully consuming undetered hate flowing out with such power your entire being is lost and it consumes you competly. it is undeniably the most honest of all emotions! is it not?? now for why i chose it. put simply it is the easiest emotion to ...
Here is the grief model called "The 7 Stages of Grief":
7 Stages of Grief...
1. SHOCK & DENIAL-
You will probably react to learning of the loss with numbed disbelief. You may deny the reality of the loss at some level, in order to avoid the pai...
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A list of all the stages:
Stages
1) Denial:
* Denial is usually only a temporary defense for the individual. This feeling is generally replaced with heightened awareness of situations and individuals that will be left behind after death. [1]
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if you had to pick one emotion what would it be and describe it as best you can i an hopeing this will help me understand better
i dont think god took her to stop you because as a loveing father you would have stopped yourself think about would you rather kill and take yourself away from your angel i think god neededtheir help somewhere else and the anger you feel is justif...
karen can you explain to me how to pull pics from my e-mail to my site this would mean a greate deal to me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
thought i would let everyone know how much i appreciate the thoughts and comments on the 25th it will be 2 years since i lost my little angels i plan to spend the day with my new daughter and hope they know that they are going to be there in my he...
I hope everyone has a good day today i know we all hurt and suffer on a daily basis but today i'm askin god to carry our pain for us we all need a small break sometimes
this june 25 is the annivesery of the death of my babies death i,m 32 and am finding the stress overwelming i just got out of the hospital yesterday i had a small stroke but almost died from complications which really scares me cause ive got a new...
ive lost four children in the past 24 months and even though i have a new baby almost here i feel the most horrible pain , the loss that i would never be ready for i will never be the same person again ,people tell me that i should be healing by n...
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- i cant tell you about me right now because im changeing so rapidly up down up down iam going to be father again on or around the 15th of june im really nervous and excited but i think i am feeling guilty about looking forward to the new baby anyone with any thoughts would be greatly appr.
- About my Loss:
- I lost my life two years ago see i was on the road moving trailer houses for fema to the tornado vics in kansas and had preveousley been in mississippi for the katrina vics i was supposed to have picked my kids up that weekend from there grandmothers house but got tangeled up do to my father-in-law trying to reuse a permit i could not make it to pick them up that night there was a fire that took my babies from me i never knew the pain one person could feel i had a rough life as a kid and never really got to enjoy my childhood but after my children came i found great joy in leting them have the childhood i felt like every kid should have we fished walked talked played cuddled everyday we could and when the state police came to tell me at the truckstop i was at i drove straight to the hospital praying that they werent hurt to badly when ibeen arrived they told me that my daughter and oldest son had died of smoke inhalation and my baby boy was flown to childrens in little rock i turned and drove straight there my 6 year old babyboy had been burned on 96% of his body in 4th degree burns and that there was nothing they could do i had a choice to make and i didnot want to because it ment my son was going to die i had them pull the plug on the lifesupport and i stayed with him until he was passed it was the most awful day of my life then about nine months later i had a little angel named haylee she was born with osteogenisis type 2 and i almost lost my faith but god,jesus interveined and laid hands on me im still here and working on myself !!!!!!!!!
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dear friend i hope that your other friends know what a caring and loving person u are i think that it is wonderful you became such a caring friend thru the net i would think it might be a little easyier because of not having a personal contact with this person but it gives me great hope that i may find a friend that i can be that close with over the net may god bless you and lend u some comfort in your time of need (((((hugs)))))
Posted on May 2, 2009 at 8:45am — 3 Comments
bomb on my chest
my family is probably the most messed up in the world well i guess everyone feels that way.I have a sisiter who is an alcholic and a brother who is a meth addict i care for my bed ridden grandmother and my uncle who has cancer and aa stroke in a wheelchair with no help from his kids and my mother who just lost my dad and is going thru the grief process as well as batteling both of my siblings for what they feel like they deserve.then after all this in my life i have to find time to grieve prepar… Continue
Posted on April 24, 2009 at 1:24pm —
truth
truth is this everything you ever done good or bad and you know everything about yourself after a loss of magnitude you were never willing to except you or i should say I have great difficulty inthinking of everything i ever could have done different its to late so it just seems to build on your mind and weigh you down maybe it should have been different but it wasnt so is that my fault or just life u tell me
Posted on April 23, 2009 at 5:22pm — 2 Comments
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- At 4:11pm on June 12, 2009,
Ann Edmondson said…
- Robert, I am so sorry to hear about the death of your little ones. To be so young and to deal with this type of pain can at times feel unbareable. As mere mortals we cannot understand why God let's things like this happen. I will pray for you and your family with all my heart. Yet, I also rejoice on the birth of your new child.
- At 10:32pm on May 7, 2009,
Karen said… - Thank you for your kind words, You have had so much pain, - my deepest sympathy's. Congrats on the new baby.
- At 9:40pm on April 20, 2009,
Diana Young said…
- When a child dies, parents are forever changed. I'm so sorry for your losses. Guilt is a normal reaction. Allow yourself to express your feelings. It may help to share pictures of your children and write about your feelings in the blog/journal feature. (((((hugs))))) and congrats on the impending birth.
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I love my Dad.
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Losing Someone to Cancer
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Missing my Son or Da...
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I miss my Mom!
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Caylee Marie Anthony
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Traumatic, Sudden Loss
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Tattoo Memorial
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Multiple Losses Group
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I Miss My Parent(s)
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mY sOuLmAtE, mY bEsTfR...
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for loved ones who hav...
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Dear Group,
Thank you so much for listening and for your feedback. It's like I know all the right answers, but gosh, this is hard. Gail, you are further down the road in this process and it gives me great hope that eventually I will be in a better...
my name us David steinbock im jackie husband. I just to thank you all shearing your pain and grief ,it has help me lot .some time i have no idear what to day to her.I know today that i can take that pain away from her. its the first time in my tha...
Allan - grief has to be handled one day at a time - no-one can push you to go any faster than your heart wants to go.
It was a little different for me with Meshael being so young, all her things were in her room just as she left them. I was the on...
Allan, I understand and know just how you feel. When I returned home from Fairbanks I had a large suitcase with lots of Angela's clothes and purses; the suitcase remained in the extra bedroom, on the bed, wide open for about 2 months. I could not ...
Dear Group,
Here's my latest dilemma. Over the holidays a large box came to reside at my house. My daughter's husband Shawn left the army and has taken a new civilian job in Kentucky. Before moving he packed and sent this large box of Callie's clo...
Thanks Gail. I am pretty sure that I am not grieving correctly - at least according to some other peoples' standard. The problem is I cant do much about it. After all the appropriate expressions of sympathy were made - cards, flowers, gifts to cha...
Wow, so many amazing stories.
Thank you, Gail...there are times I feel like just screaming at the top of my lungs telling the world to leave me alone!! I hurt and I will deal with my grief in a way that suits me!!! No one will tell me how to grieve or how long to mourn the dea...
I am sorry if I don't grieve correctly.
Please share with me the standards you use to judge.
In the beginning if I held my emotions it wasn't enough.
Yet now you do not wish to be reminded of what I can never forget.
How can one judge someone els...
I have been very lucky to have many ADC with my husband. When he died, I saw him over his hospital bed waving to me, saying I love you, and going to heaven. He also messes with my computer because he knows I am not that computer literate. He has c...
Tania:
I know how you feel. The stupid things people say because they don't know what to say. It has been only 8 months since I lost my husband suddenly and my sister has been constantly telling me that life goes on and get over it. She has never ...
I just joined the support group today. I lost my partner/soulmate on October 14th very unexpectdly in three hours. We later learned that a blood clot had passed through her heart. I am having a hard time trying to go forward and am hoping joining ...
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To One In Sorrow
Let me come in where you are weeping, friend,
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And let me take your hand.
I, who have known a sorrow such as yours, can understand.
Let me come in--I would be very still beside you in your grief;
I would not bid you cease your weeping, friend,
Tears bring relief. Let me come in--and hold your hand,
For I have known a sorrow such as yours, And understand.
-Grace Noll Crowell
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