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Its still hard for me to sleep at night. My doctor gave me "something" to help me sleep, but I don't feel I need to take it often. I spend most nights (that I'm off) awake in front of the tv. I hate that I don't feel motivated to do things around th…
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I lost my daughter on July 4, 2009. In an atuo accident and I was at fault because i was tired. The night before I had worked a 12hr shift (corrections officer) and that morning I came in from work and got the kids off to daycare and basicly took a…
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For all of us that are suffering the loss a son or daughter.
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I don't talk about the accident but I do talk about her.
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My daughter's sudden death has left me wanting to cry daily but I hide the tears because my son (3yrs old) needs a strong happy mommy.

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Its still hard for me to sleep at night. My doctor gave me "something" to help me sleep, but I don't feel I need to take it often. I spend most nights (that I'm off) awake in front of the tv. I hate that I don't feel motivated to do things around the house. Sometimes I want to move to another house but then I think about all that I would be leaving behind, the memories of her. I often turn off all emotions and just work on auto pilot. I hate that my husband isn't here, especially when I lay here… Continue

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At 5:18pm on October 29, 2009, Gail Richardson said…

Latisha - I am so sorry for your loss - your daughter is absolutely beautiful, you must miss her terribly. The thing that has struck me most about your post is how much you blame yourself - for being tired. As a single parent myself, I worked two jobs and weekends just to make ends meet so we all know those moments of utter exhaustion. I feel the policeman behaved in an awful fashion and I'm angry that you weren't allowed to go with your chilren to the hospital - where they could have done the blood work anyway. I hope you are getting some support from your family and friends. And have you thought about getting some counselling to help you deal with your feelings of guilt? The group here is small but very supportive - so feel free to rant and rave, cry and scream or just talk - we understand your pain and will try to help you get through the awful muddle that grief leaves us in. It's fine being a strong Mummy for your son but you need to be able to express your grief sometimes or you will burst. I've been walking this road a long time - 8 years now - if there is anyway I can help you - just let me know. My shoulders are broad and made for crying on. Take care my love - your little Angel will be well looked after by all our Angels.
Hugs Gail xx
 
 

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